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why does marriage have to suck so bad?
Posted: Wed Apr 06, 2005 5:12 am
by KD
i just got home from three great days in the gorge that I had looked forward to for a long time. I climbed so much i was exhausted - decided to come home a day early because i was homesick and all we've done is argue and bitch and now shes asleep and im about to pack and go to the new until my vacation is over. it'd be different if i was some kind of asshole husband but i'm really nice - good wage earner - love my wife and home. shit...this crap is killing me - wish id stayed in the red - or had a big 'ol shot of ...somethin sweet to make it all go away. why do people have to bitch at each other so much? why can't hugs and affection be traded for middle fingers and load mean mouths. lesson - never go home early from climbing - never.
Posted: Wed Apr 06, 2005 5:20 am
by allah
Thats why i dont want to think about dating/marrying a non climber, sorry for your luck, just watch some porn and leave for the new. good luck and have fun
Posted: Wed Apr 06, 2005 5:23 am
by KD
thanks - washing dirty climbing clothes as we speak
Posted: Wed Apr 06, 2005 6:00 am
by pigsteak
hmmmm...a weeks vacation, and you take it without your wife? I'd say that is a move in the wrong direction. How about staying home, instead of the New, and asking her what SHE wants to do for the reat of YOUR vacation. good luck.
Posted: Wed Apr 06, 2005 6:25 am
by KD
cuz she wants to bithity bitch at me - that's why. believe it or not i am a very good husband - work hard, listen, don't lay around, no alcohol, work around the house, bring a damn good paycheck home - totally different than any member of my family - but i jus think life is too damn short to listen to and play around with gripin' an' walkin' on eggshells. shouldn't got homesick - should've stayed. would be fast asleep in my tent right now with a millinon stars overhead instead of zoning on twelve zanaxes wishing it was the good stuff from my misspent youth. it ain't me man - everybody wants to blame the male. this male has survived against all odds to turn out better than those before him and has been paid in cold hard bitch for most of it. never cut a climbing trip short - i'm closing my eyes and clickin' my heels as i repeat it now.
Posted: Wed Apr 06, 2005 1:26 pm
by longlegsrule
but you're the one that went on a vacation without her...
and have you ever tried to NOT retaliate?
Posted: Wed Apr 06, 2005 1:32 pm
by rhunt
wow you sound like you are in prison...sorry dude. work it out or leave
Posted: Wed Apr 06, 2005 1:55 pm
by charlie
allah wrote:Thats why i dont want to think about dating/marrying a non climber....
Heh, at least he has climbing to get away!
rhunt wrote:wow you sound like you are in prison...sorry dude. work it out or leave
Yeah, what he said. Sac up and fix it or get out. This ain't marriagecounseling.com.
Posted: Wed Apr 06, 2005 3:02 pm
by Huggybone
Get her a copy of the book 'his needs, her needs'
It is realy good.
Posted: Wed Apr 06, 2005 3:10 pm
by Huggybone
Its not some warm fuzzy book, but simply a lot of factual information as to why marrages fail, and ideas for avoiding those potholes.