Gretchen wrote:
I have to say that in this particular thread, that initially I was offended by SCIN's direct attack at me
Gretchen, I really didn't think it was possible to offend you. You really let me down. Really though, I apologize for shoving that in your face like I did in my original post. Most of what I write is fueled by alcohol, temper and adrenalin. Michelle told me that a Warrior would wait until he is calmed down to make a decision (or something like that). I waited about ten minutes and nothing changed in my head so I wrote what I wrote. I guess I'm not a Warrior.
Maybe I can explain better why I'm so pissed now that I'm calmed down a bit.
I received an email from John explaining that the decision was made to publicize the route information for the Southern Region in order to draw attention to it for fund raising. He added that he was aware I really didn't need his permission anyway but he was just letting me know that he was all for it now.
It was very nice and respectful. Very "John".
Next thing you know I'm speaking with Hugh at Miguel's and he is telling me that he wants me to put the information in the online guide but also to solicit people for personal information (if they want to see the route information for that area) so the RRGCC can in turn solicit those people for money. He mentions that he would like to pass his knowledge of the Southern Region on to me so I could enter it into the guide. I ask him if he would like to enter the information himself and he says that he really doesn't have the time. So right then I feel like this:
A) This guy thinks I can't do this shit without him
B) This guy wants me to gather personal info from people so they can be spammed or telemarketed to.
C) This guy doesn't even want to help. He says he doesn't have time.
Does he think I have all the fucking time in the world? I'm in the middle of obtaining my MCSE. I have a demanding job. I have the web site. I train for Duathlons. I train for climbing. I climb. What....does he think I'm some unemployed fucking teenager???
So...I mention that I could do the same thing without his help. I know how to hike. I know how to climb. I can climb probably any route this guy can climb. If not I can at least look at the route and know if it's crimpy or not or whatever. He then mutters and stumbles a bit and in a smooth sort of way says that something to the effect of "Well, we're going to own the land and it will be private property and you will be doing something illegal if you don't do it our way". He didn't say those exact words but that's the idea I got.
BOOM!!!!!!!! A THREAT!
So, let's add to the list:
D) This motherfucker is threatening me.
My heart rate is starting to increase just thinking about it right now. This shit fuels me. I may be 32 but I still feel like a kid in school when the teacher told me I couldn't do something. What did I do? I did it just to show her that I *could* do it even though she told me I couldn't.
AND THEN.............
The weekend comes and goes and I hear that Hugh is running around telling people that the Solar Collector stuff is all wrong and there are all kinds of mistakes. These "critical" mistakes are things as petty as a route being named "Green Horns in Velvet" in the guide but it is actually "Green Horns". OH DAMN! Now nobody is going to want to climb it! I think he was just trying to show that I *needed* his wisdom or something.
So now..........
Here we are. That is why we are in this situation.
A) I can gather route information without Hugh
B) I'm not going to be the source of a spamming or telemarketing incident.
C) I just may not have time to create a data collection screen anyway.
D) Nobody threatens me and gets away with it.
If only it had stopped at John's kind words.