Is 2 the new 3

Post by **Josephine** » Mon Jan 11, 2010 2:52 pm

Yasmeen wrote:
dipsi wrote:Pfft. If she's interested in you, you could call her on her way home and it wouldn't matter. If she's not, the desperate excuse is just that.

Surely things haven't changed that much!
Right on, Dipsi. Assuming I was into him, I'd be much more psyched if a guy called me the next day instead of 2-3 days later, but then, I'm a contact junkie.

i agree.

Post by **Meadows** » Mon Jan 11, 2010 3:14 pm

Whatever you decide to do, call and don't text. If you don't have enough minutes on your phone, then you need to upgrade.

Post by **anticlmber** » Mon Jan 11, 2010 5:38 pm

you need to upgrade

Post by **Yasmeen** » Mon Jan 11, 2010 10:46 pm

krampus wrote:
Clevis Hitch wrote:well i think the first rule should be never take advice from someone less sucessful than you. That being said I couldn't give relationship advise to anyone.
cheers to that. I was hoping for the opinion of the ladies, after all thats the one that counts. Thanks ditzi, yas, and dipsi

Anytime

I think the problem with all the games like how long to wait to call, etc. is that they can't help but introduce a power struggle into the relationship from the very beginning. If you're not constantly worried about who's got the upper hand, it's all going to be a lot more fun.

Credentials: a number of failed relationships and one very happy one.

Post by **rjackson** » Tue Jan 12, 2010 12:11 am

I've been married a loonnngggggg time but I agree with the females - if there's interest and/or attraction then the sooner the better.

Though I always went the other route and gave my number. Then I didn't have to worry and if I got a call then I knew there was something. I ended up with a wonderful relationship.

Post by **Brentucky** » Tue Jan 12, 2010 2:37 am

1st date we have drinks, food, and see a stripper (not intentional, apparently that was the "burlesque" part of the show at Natasha's). Next day girl texts a word of thanks, I text back something classy and smooth I'm sure. Later I idiotically Facebook friend request the girl! DOH!!! I'm pissed at myself all in the meanwhile for doing such a pointless and stupid thing that upon deep analysis can only lead to bad but can't possibly lead to good after one date. Day 2 after date I call girl and crack her up about my screwed up Facebook friend request and inform her I can't talk long because I'm watching "The Bachelor." SCORE!!!

I'm tellin ya, if I can do this anyone can!

Post by **Yasmeen** » Tue Jan 12, 2010 11:20 am

rjackson and Brentucky - nice!

Post by **pigsteak** » Tue Jan 12, 2010 1:58 pm

Brent, I taught you well....and dude, what about roslyn hooking up with a camera man and getting kicked off? that was awesome!

Post by **krampus** » Tue Jan 12, 2010 7:42 pm

hijacked by the bachelor, that's just embarrassing.