Preaching to the choir man. You can only do so much before you really have to start looking out for yourself. The taxes you pay for running Paul's babysitting service oftentimes aren't worth the effort.
So, as Terry would say....In the end, are they Value Add or Liability?
There are more people to help than can be helped in a lifetime. Fuck the ones that don't know how to grow.
Paul, man, who shit on your burrito? I'm sorry to hear that your patience broke, but we all need to let it out sometimes. Written so eloquently, don't be sorry for venting. Hope you feel better. Hugs.
The best years of your life are the ones in which you decide your problems are your own.
You do not blame them on your mother, the ecology, or the president.
You realize that you control your own destiny.